if somebody mis-understood you, would you explain?
before this, my answer is yes.
but now, my answer is no.
when somebody have such thinking, it is very hard (but possible) to turn them.
imagine...
you are doing something based on your judgement at time t1, your context is c1.
but when somebody else come and look at it, their time is t2, and their context is c2. certainly, t1 != t2 and c1 != c2. At this point, we can't say that either c1 or c2 is good or bad.
In short, in different timeframe and context, a thing will have very much different feel towards us. This, direct or indirectly, will affect how we look at them. In history, these things always happen. The historical ppl die already, so they can't explain. But who is going to explain or judge?? today living ppl. but all of them come out with different conclusion, that have very different similarity.
